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Multan to Milpitas 4.A

nobody@flickr.com (Bushra & Sons) — Sun, 10 Jul 2011 03:22:07 -0700

This picture was taken on Muawiz's first day in school.See How long my hair were because he liked me in long hair:DFOOL ME He was very happy after coming back from school having a balloon but Mueed missed him all day. First month of Muawiz's school Mueed always cried and asked why Muawiz is in school?
This was the time when abuse and violence was on peak.
I have done every thing he wants. Once even Muawiz was not born one of the lady from our Pakistani community after dropping off her kids came to our house he was leaving for work and he asked me to come to the garage and with firm, full of threat and lower voice he said, “If you will go out with HER! I will divorce you!” I was shocked, scared and surprised even she did not say for going out how he just angry??? I said I won’t. And when he came back for lunch asked me what she was saying? Nothing just she thought to say hi. Listen if she came in absence of me without calling you ahead you can not open the door for her or her sister in law! Ok And believe me after that I did not open my front door for getting mail (mail box was on front door in those days) and I remember once she came with her mother in law and I was in kitchen she knocked the door and I was trying not even breath, I was ordered not to open the door and tell any thing to any one. Worst of all I was not allowed to tell any one that my husband did not like it. Any ways when Muawiz was born I asked him it did not look good that kid is crying inside and I am not opening the door for ladies. Then he said ok if any one comes you have to call me. Parkash was in my neighbor for her he was ok because she also did not has driving license at that time.
Any ways friends December, 1994 through March, 2002 I never ever say any thing about his character and about having relations with girls in 2002 I came to know he has a e-mail account he is hiding from me and as my every thing was in front of him I was ordered to call him even if a woman is visiting me( Now one of those ladies said, “Bushra we were really irritated by your husband that how come when ever we visited you even that is not lunch time he just came from work and sat with us. Did,t you even feel this thing?” I said I never ever think he is a loose character person that’s why he is doing this with me. I just thought this family in whole is very conservative and different from my family we just need to adjust and I can adjust as I am going to live my life with him not any other ladies it’s ok if I won’t meet them.
Now when I came to know about that account with the name “Only you USA” I demand to see those e-mails he is hiding from me. He became so furious you are nothing you can not ask me this that. I said Mr. I always watch you to asking girls on the internet that they show you their boobs once I said what why, why are you saying this to that girl??He said get out of this room “by-hiya ghatiya, orat”/ shameless and cheep woman”
Any ways I was able to retrieve his password some how( I know companies and law makers are making laws and security updates for cheaters in regards of password retrieval by third party) Fist he said you hack my account this is a crime I said go ahead make a police report. Then he became so polite take me out for dinner kissed me asked me for password hey I was just having fun with those girls I am not serious you are the queen of house. I gave him the password asking if he is not cheating he must not change this password. But what have he done he change his email address and advised one of those Chinese girls. Any ways somehow I was able to read their emails to each other and I was just quite because I was thinking ok he is not a smoker he never drunk he is just having fun online he is doing something like Clinton have done if Hillary is still with him that means even for white women family life is something wont destroy my family life. I am not wrong he is wrong. I just start reading Quran and prayer more. And he sometimes got made on me hey you don’t say that much prayers your brain is going out of your hands. As sometimes I just say those sentences he was writing to that girl. He thought that as I am praying a lot when I go to sleep I am dreaming about those emails(rofl) Believe me he was scared of my pure heart and now I believe he is not the one most people even don’t like to hire pure hearted people
What happened next he started saying to that girl I am coming to visit you and I will make love with you before marriage. That girl started saying oh no I am a Chinese girl unlike American girls my Virginity is something for me and he said oh no that means you don’t trust me And I was really surprised this person my husband I many time say I LOVE you to him he never ever say that to me for those girls he was saying that. And I became very scared when that girl stated in one e-mail Ok I am agree to have sex before marriage I will commit suicide if you not marry me after having sex with me. Here sir here I became to scared I thought hay Bushra you know on numerous SINGLES websites this person has his profile as a bachelor now he is fooling this girl yes he will not marry her but she is saying she will commit suicide, If it happens God will ask you I was showing you something even you were not aware to computer and software stuff at all I made you to see all of their emails you came to know that girl will commit suicide and just because you were afraid that your husband will divorce you stayed quite????” Then after several days of fight between myself and my conscious I decide to tell that girl that he is a married person stay away from him. Now he gave her his job phone number and received her calls over there. Once when he left home for talk to her” I send her a message that “beware this person is married with 4 kids(I thought two will not enough to scare her 4 should be work:D) and he is not bachelor so believe me here is WOLF IN SHEEP”S CLOTHING (against your virginity) I request her not to tell him but she told him and OH MY GOOD LORD GOD worst period of my life has been started. She forward him all the conversation and emails and he asked me with red eyes and full anger, “AM I A WOLF IN SHEEPS CLOTHING????” (hahahah here I wish I could illustrate in voice those moments:D) You think I am a wolf? I said I was just willing to scare her nothing else. What do you think you can stop me????? He asked I did not have any answer. Then he said now I will go every day with other girls and “Apna joli bistra utha dafa hu ja yahan se” (Pack your language and get out of my house) Next day again hey you did not pack your language?? Do it I can not see cheap woman like you in my house get out get lost. And he brought 1000 dollars in place them in closet. What have I done next day as he left for job I had one 20 dollar bill out of that and rush to nearest shop and bought a calling card. I called his sister and told them what he is doing with me and as she was not aware of computer and email stuff I talked to her husband and send them those e-mails I got from his mail box. I request them not to tell him about this call I will try to makeup with him. Ahhh he was wrong and to make him happy I was doing everything he likes.

Multan to Milpitas 5

nobody@flickr.com (Bushra & Sons) — Thu, 30 Jun 2011 02:53:52 -0700

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I have started a common woman's story that is a story of hundred thousands of common women all around the world. Story of those women have brain and tongue but can not talk or not allowed to say any thing:) I am their voice.No one can stop this (except Allah{ and I am fully aware Allah wants this voice should be spread like Azan inshaAllah)
I realized I just lost in other activities for a while. Not lost but believe me every time scratching once own wounds pretty hardwork no one could imagine, only the person going through that pain can feel that:) but for me my pain can be bearable but when I have think about other's pain I can't stop my self to scream out loud. That how long? how long people you gonna do this???
Why are you doing this some one asked me. I said I have to because here I have a hope that they will listen and try to resolve this issue. In an Islamic country I can not even think about it. Now som epeople will say she is trying to make Americans Happy She is pretending like she is moderate this and that no I am not trying to make any one happy:D In last 15 years I try to be too much polite and light with every one I am tired now and I was fail to save my family life as well as a secure job.
Yes sir! every one must be saying there is something wrong with her but did any body see what made her like this????
When people asked me to be a care giver or house keeper and I am saying NO! every one included court asked me WHY!? I am asking you WHY A GAY IS A GAY, WHY A LESBIAN IS LESBIAN? WHY OUR FAMILY COURTS IN A MARRIED COUPLE'S DIVORCE CASE, DON"T CARE, "HOW MANY HOSES HE SLEPT WITH" I know I know you will say because court cares about financial issues not emotional issues.
So being a gay is a financial issue??? We are respecting their emotions I guess when we held protests for them. I was surprise that how come OUR RESPECTED PRESIDENT RESPECT OUR VOTE FOR HIM BUT WHERE WE VOTED AGAINST GAY MARRIAGES, HIS TONE IS PRETTY Apologetic:-O Why respected president Obama is doubtful about people's this decision?They voted in majority? Then I realized Oh these gays have a strong lobby up there (you know where) and these poor mothers ( getting Kids only having SEX in their WEDLOCK ) don't have money to buy lobbyists up there. Oh Allah
I want to talk more but I think with each and every pic story will be continue I have refresh in memory from where I have started this story. Yup a kinda hopeless END is near but I am waiting for a miracle;)Talk to you soon folks.
Song of the DAY

جانے کب ہوں گے کم اس دنیا کے غم When will the griefs of world ended.

nobody@flickr.com (Bushra & Sons) — Sun, 27 Feb 2011 22:28:46 -0800

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There are those at risk species they sacrifice their careers for family and children and there is no recognation for their hours they spend taking care of their family. yes i am talking about stay home mothers or hose wife without gainful job( I mean where one can make money)Years back in 80 there was recognition of these women in divorce now there is painful thing was before only in Muslim countries now in most civilized countries this question to them is appearing that "If we give you kids how you will take care of them???" You don't have a job. And she can not say as father of my children was responsible for financials he should do the same. in they eyes of judges civilized countries that stay home mother will be considered a lzy woman wants to relay upon HIM. Yeah here those really are using their kids as pawns can get them and sincere to their kids will suffer.
Well in America we are there where money making is first then spending time with your kids so if kids will suffer any kind of issues they can get help from psychologists, mother s are not important but in this country a huge number of immigrants are going back to their countries and after marriage bringing those girls here they don't know about this country much and no family here, if they are going through divorce and they have minors in respectable family court only one solution for their problems they should have jobs and forget about kids just need to remember this much they have to pay child support to their EX and his family in the name of their own children since husbands have extended family here those girls not so kids need to stay in extended family and LOVE as mother in nothing nothing at all in FAMILY LAW MATTERS. Some times I think what a pitty in their own countries their religious beliefs control them here LAW by LAW they can go to the court but can not expect other then getting pushed for job. Job k adanad de do in aurton ko sab masley hal yeh hal nikala hai civilized law makers ne yahan tu.
بس نوکری کر کا ڈنڈا دے دوگھریلو عورتوں کو باقی خیر ہے
After all Americans need to aid all around the world they need job holders so can get revenue for those matters. and as in religious matters woman are most religions persons in helping the country and world they are the easy to motivate so motivate them by showing gajar of their kids yeah you are doing this job for your kids hey you will not be able to see your kids since court ordered you to pay half of the cost for kids coming and going back to other state or city by air how you will pay if didn't have a job?? Cool question courts can't help you they just can ask you to go for job which you can do without going to them too :D:D:D
In short for married stay home mothers we try to make every thing harder and harsher, like we are giving them punishment for sacrificing their career or themselves. Why were you selfless?why you were not selfish?Now You need to suffer and be an example fro those they are trying to be selfless that not do that:D:D

Dill Dewana Dill Najaney kion Dharkta rehta hai;-)

nobody@flickr.com (Bushra & Sons) — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 20:04:50 -0700

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I was not aware I am capturing a cloud heart even with arrow in it;-) Today when I have downloaded these pictures to the computer I realized this heart and just wish to know at that time I was capturing that this is a heart to take a complete shot I just feel to go little bit down though to complete it:)But still pretty cloud heart I guess:D I just use some exposure, Hope you like it:)

Eid Mubarik:)

nobody@flickr.com (Bushra & Sons) — Fri, 18 Sep 2009 22:08:52 -0700

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Artificial RainBow By Mueed:)

Sabaha-Al- Khair:)good morning;)

nobody@flickr.com (Bushra & Sons) — Mon, 31 Aug 2009 23:13:03 -0700

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Khol Ankh zameen daikh falak dekh faza daikh
Mashriq se ubharty hoey soraj ko zara daikh
ADAM IS RECEIVED BY THE SPIRIT OF THE EARTH

Open thy eyes and look above,
Look at the streak of dawn;
Look at the veiling of the vision;
Look at. the banishment unfair;
Look at the battle of hope and fear.

Thine are the clouds, the rains, the skies,
Thine are the winds, the storms,
The woods, the mountains, the rivers are thine;
The world of the angels was a void;
Look at the peopled earth, which is thine.

Thou wilt rule it like a king;
The stars will gaze in wonder-,
Thy vision will encompass the earth;
Thy sighs will reach the heavens;
Look at the power of thy pain and passion.

The spark in thee is a radiant sun;
A new world lives in thee;
Thou carest not for a borrowed heaven;
Thy life-blood has it concealed;
Look at the reward of anguish and toil.

Purple Flowers with Golden Stars

nobody@flickr.com (Bushra & Sons) — Fri, 07 Aug 2009 17:34:51 -0700

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Taken By my 12 years old son Muawiz, Frame by Mom:)
Have a Wonderful Week End Friends

Mueed Combs my Hairs

nobody@flickr.com (Bushra & Sons) — Thu, 30 Jul 2009 00:50:24 -0700

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Taken by Mueed when he was combing my hairs he took a lot of pictures and really that was soothing and relaxing evening when my son was combing my head after each strike of hair brush he was asking me again & again mom did it hurt you? and I said no my dear:) After a long time I remember my youngest sister use to like combing my head:) In her child hood now Mueed had done something like her but he was so perfect in order to putting water again & again lolz:D
he is 10:)

Bushra as Cinderella

nobody@flickr.com (Bushra & Sons) — Sat, 11 Apr 2009 07:12:37 -0700

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A Dream is a Wish Your Heart Makes-

Cinderella

I still believe
Thanks Sonia for crowns:D